“I don’t have a faith or religious belief, but would really like someone to talk to.”
That’s absolutely fine! We are here for all patients, regardless of your personal beliefs.
“My loved one is approach the end of their life. They are Roman Catholic and would appreciate the Last Rites. Can you help with this?”
We certainly can. Though you are welcome to have your own parish priest attend, we have Roman Catholic clergy who will attend the hospital to administer the Sacrament of the Sick (colloquially known as the Last Rites).
“I’m a staff member going through a difficult time. Can I make use of the chaplaincy service?”
Absolutely – we are here for staff as well as patients and have found that our level of staff support has increased during the pandemic. We would be pleased to meet you on your ward or you might prefer to come to one of the rooms in the chaplaincy department. Please do get in touch with us.
“I found a real connection with x chaplain. Can I receive visits only from them please?”
We are so pleased you found a visit from our chaplain helpful. We work as a team and many of our chaplains work across both sites. We cannot promise that you will receive a visit from the same individual chaplain again – however they are all lovely!
“Being in hospital has raised all sorts of questions about things I’ve done in my life. I really need someone to help me think them through but I’m scared of being judged.”
We offer a person-centred, non judgemental approach. We promise to listen to you without judgement and, where appropriate, may offer reflective conversation to help you in your thinking. Above all: you set the content and direction of a conversation.
“My loved one is currently in A & E but we‘re not allowed to be with them. Can chaplaincy assist?”
Yes we can. Do get in touch with us and we would be pleased to visit them.
“My father was supported well by the chaplains before he passed away in hospital. We would love it if you could do his funeral.”
We are so pleased your father found our support helpful. In some circumstances it may be appropriate for the hospital chaplain to be involved with funeral services. However we generally seek to encourage the funeral ministries of local religious ministers and civil celebrants. We are however happy to facilitate introductions to celebrants and local funeral directors.
“I really think my brother would benefit from having someone to pray with. He doesn’t really have faith but I think prayer would be really helpful to him.”
Though we would be very happy to visit your brother, he would need to consent to a visit. Any conversation about faith, religion or prayer would need to come from him. We are not there to impose any faith belief framework or practices.
“Does the appearance of someone in a clerical / dog collar mean I’m about to die?”
We recognise that for many, seeing someone in a dog (clerical) collar can bring with it all sorts of connotations. Many of clergy are ordained and will wear the dog collar to indicate their role.
Though it is true we are sometimes called to be with someone as they approach the end of their life, a minister or priest turning up at your bedside does not mean anything other than they have come to visit you.